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Heal Without Shame.
Sex Therapy & Intimacy Counseling · NY & NJ
Online sex therapy and sexual intimacy counseling for adults in New York and New Jersey. Work with an AASECT-affiliated therapist in a safe, affirming, and judgment-free space.
What Is Sex Therapy?
More Than You Think. Exactly What You Need.
Sex therapy is a specialized form of talk therapy that addresses sexual concerns, intimacy challenges, and the emotional dimensions of your sexual health. Contrary to common misconceptions, sex therapy does not involve any physical contact — it is a confidential, professional counseling process conducted entirely through conversation.
As an AASECT-affiliated therapist in New York and New Jersey, Fatima Lundy provides online sex therapy that helps individuals and couples explore, understand, and improve their sexual well-being in a shame-free environment.
Whether you are navigating low desire, recovering from sexual trauma, or simply seeking to deepen intimacy with your partner, sexual intimacy counseling can help you reconnect — with yourself and with those you love.
Who Seeks Sex Therapy?
Individuals experiencing low libido or desire discrepancy
Couples struggling with sexual disconnection
Survivors of sexual trauma or abuse
People navigating sexual identity or orientation
Those dealing with performance anxiety or sexual dysfunction
Partners with mismatched sexual needs or expectations
Anyone experiencing shame or guilt around sexuality
Sexual Intimacy Concerns We Treat
Areas We Address
Online sex therapy in New York and New Jersey for a wide range of sexual health and intimacy concerns — all addressed with compassion and clinical expertise.
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Low Desire & Libido
Explore the emotional, relational, and physical factors behind low sexual desire and develop strategies to reconnect with your sexuality.
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Sexual Communication
Learn to express your needs, desires, and boundaries clearly and confidently with your partner.
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Body Image & Sexual Shame
Address shame, guilt, and negative body image that interfere with sexual confidence and fulfillment.
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Intimacy After Abuse
Rebuild trust and emotional safety in relationships after experiencing emotional, physical, or sexual abuse.
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Desire Discrepancy in Couples
Navigate mismatched libidos and sexual needs in your relationship with empathy and practical tools.
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Sexual Trauma Recovery
Heal from past sexual trauma in a safe, trauma-informed space. Reclaim your body, your boundaries, and your sense of self.
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Intimacy After Illness
Reconnect with your sexuality after illness, surgery, or major health changes that have affected your intimate life.
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Sexual Identity & Orientation
Explore questions of sexual identity, orientation, and expression in an affirming, non-judgmental environment.
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Performance Anxiety
Reduce anxiety around sexual performance and develop a healthier, more present relationship with intimacy.
Why Choose TIMA Therapist
Sex Therapy in NY & NJ You Can Trust
AASECT-Affiliated
Fatima holds membership with the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists — the gold standard in sex therapy credentials.
Shame-Free Space
Every session is conducted with radical non-judgment. Your sexuality is valid, and your healing deserves a space free from stigma.
FULLY ONLINE
Access sex therapy from the privacy and comfort of your own home. Serving clients throughout New York and New Jersey via secure telehealth.
Online Sex Therapy & Intimacy Counseling in New York & New Jersey
If you're searching for a sex therapist in New York or a sex therapist in New Jersey, TIMA Therapist offers compassionate, evidence-based sexual intimacy counseling delivered entirely online. Our telehealth model means you can access expert care from anywhere in NY or NJ — no commute, no waiting room, and complete privacy.
Sexual health is mental health. Many people carry shame, confusion, or unresolved pain around their sexuality for years before seeking help. Whether you're dealing with intimacy issues in your relationship, recovering from sexual trauma, or simply wanting to understand yourself better, a licensed sexual intimacy therapist can provide the guidance and support you deserve.
TIMA Therapist serves individuals and couples throughout New York City (NYC), Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, Manhattan, Staten Island, Long Island, Westchester, and across New Jersey, including Newark, Jersey City, Hoboken, Trenton, and beyond — all via secure online therapy.
Common Questions About Sex Therapy
Is sex therapy the same as couples therapy?
Not exactly. While couples therapy focuses broadly on the relationship, sex therapy specifically addresses sexual concerns, intimacy, and sexual health. Both can be valuable, and many clients benefit from both simultaneously.
Do I have to be in a relationship to benefit from sex therapy?
Absolutely not. Sex therapy is highly beneficial for individuals as well as couples. Many people seek individual sex therapy to address personal concerns, past trauma, sexual identity, or to simply develop a healthier relationship with their own sexuality.
Is online sex therapy effective?
Yes. Research supports the effectiveness of telehealth therapy, including for sexual concerns. Online sex therapy offers the added benefit of privacy and comfort, which can actually help clients open up more freely.
How do I know if I need a sex therapist vs. a regular therapist?
If your primary concerns involve sexual function, desire, intimacy, or sexual trauma, a therapist with specialized training in sexuality — like an AASECT-affiliated counselor — is the best fit. TIMA Therapist integrates both general mental health and sexual health expertise.