Fatima Lundy
Licensed Mental Health Counselor · Author

Fatima Lundy

MSEd. · LMHC · LPC · CFT™
New York & New Jersey

LMHC – NY LPC – NJ CFT™ MSEd. Chi Sigma Iota AASECT FTA Member
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TESTIMONIALS

ACHIEVEMENTS

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Toastmasters District 46 Area Contest

First Place Speech Award for “The Straitjacket of Shame”

Flyer of Fatima Lundy giving a workshop on Emotional Abuse at Asiyah Women's Center

Healing From Emotional Abuse: Reclaiming Your Power Workshop at Asiyah Women’s Center

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Toastmasters District 46 Division Contest

Second Place Speech Award for “The Straitjacket of Shame”

My Award Winning Speech “The Straitjacket of Shame”

Sharing my personal experience with emotional abuse and providing support for other survivors

Flyer for a Financial Wellness Support & Educational Group. The flyer includes a photo of a woman holding her head in distress with money and documents on a table. It offers information about managing financial stress, gaining financial literacy tools, and breaking inherited money habits. The group meets Sundays from 5:30 to 6:30 pm via Zoom starting April 13th, 2025, costing $65. Contact details include an email, phone number, and a QR code for registration.

Financial Wellness Support Group at Evolve Integrative Psychotherapy

MY THERAPUTIC METHOD

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    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

    Thoughts and behaviors are linked. By changing our thoughts we can change our behaviors and thus change our lives.

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    Motivational Interviewing

    Expressing empathy and supporting self-advocacy. The client has the strength and the ability to grow and change.

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    Person-Centered Therapy

    The client is the expert in their own life. As clients explore their feelings, they gain a clear perception of themselves, which leads to psychological growth.

Latest Writing

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✦ Featured · Book Excerpt

No More Lies: Why I Published My Story of Emotional Abuse

This story includes reproduced text messages and screenshots that reflect the emotional dynamics of a relationship that changed everything. I chose to include them to preserve accuracy. Here is why I could not stay silent — and what I needed the world to see.

Abuse Patterns

Trauma Bonding: Why You Can't Just Leave

A neurological and psychological explanation of the pull that keeps survivors attached to those who hurt them most.

Therapy Insights

DARVO: When the Abuser Becomes the "Victim"

How Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender leaves survivors questioning their own reality — and how to recognise it.


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